Absolutely, if you have been in a “relationship” with this girl for at least three months plus. I highlighted a relationship because if y’all are currently dating then it’s forbidden for her to pay the bill unless your strategy is to never see her again. No matter how may romantic love quotes for her you read, how much you like her, and whatever you plan for the future. It is really important that you never let a girl to pay on your first date. Here is an example of what happens when a guy expects the girl to pay on a date.
I have a friend named Alexi who went on a date with this guy for the first time. He took her out to a restaurant called Chili’s, after they ate and the bill was on the table, her date asked her did she have her meal covered. Alexi was furious but kept her composer and paid for her meal. After the date, Alexi never contacted him again. After a week or so of ignoring his calls, she answered for once. He said sorry and tried to explain that he doesn’t pay on the first date (I didn’t understand that even from a guy’s point of view). Alexi didn’t care for any excuse he had because he didn’t have a legit excuse. Alexi never talked to him again after that last call.
So there you have it, fellas, if you want to continue to see your data on many more dates then you better have cash for both of you and bring extra money, you never know if she likes dessert. It’s merely okay for the girl to pay on dates when you have paid your dues of dates. It is best to wait after a couple of months into the relationship and you start to build a best friend bond and stray away from the first physical attraction bond. Don’t go broke over your girlfriend, if she never seems satisfied unless you spend more money or every time y’all are at the mall she expects you to buy her something then that is a sign of a gold digger. Try asking her if she minds paying for a date and if she says no then stay at home and don’t go out with her that day. If she really wants to see you and be in a relationship with you then it shouldn’t be a hassle for her to pull out some cash for your presence.
The best type of girlfriend is the one who doesn’t mind doing cost-efficient dates from time to time. If she doesn’t enjoy a date at the park or watching a movie at the house then she is unappreciative of you and you should move on to someone better. Take note; a girlfriend is not a wife, you are not obligated to pampering her. Every dime and time you spend on her is because you choose to. If she acts like you have to do this or spend on that because you are her boyfriend then she needs a reality check. My friend’s ex got jealous of the amount of money he spent on himself compared to the amount he spent on her. He had to let her know he doesn’t have to spend a dime on her, and he knew he spent a lot for her on dates and holidays.
If you feel like you spend a fair amount of money on your girlfriend personally and date wise and she complains, it’s best you leave her and let her take care of herself. There is plenty of sugar daddy’s that’ll take care of her but she’ll never gain anything more than the U.S dollar from them. If you know you are spending all your money on yourself and then ask her to pay for dates then you are wrong and she has a right to complain. Evaluate your relationship’s finances and fix whatever needs to be fixed, if you treat your girlfriend fairly and she shows appreciation then congratulations, you have what some of these readers are looking for.