Checking my 13-year-old daughters’ cell phone or giving my 20-year-old daughter’s room a “look around” is not spying. Saying it is spying is equal to my boss looking through my personal email or listening to my phone calls. By virtue of the fact that I work for the company it is allowed. The reason for this is he/she wants to make certain department policy is followed and the best interest of the company is in “safe” hands. This is also the reason why I feel it is my duty to check on my children. I need to validate that my policies are followed and that the companies interest (our home) is in “safe” hands too. Some would say, especially these days when there are so many ways for every kind and every type of evil to get into our homes with the flick of a switch and the click of a button.
Most of the things I do however were similar to what my mom did to me. She checked on me all the time. She checked on my friends so she would know who I was hanging out with, and she monitored my calls. I do the normal things such as check my 13 year olds phone periodically (unscheduled). I check for passwords and when I find one has been put on it I immediately request the password so I can check and see why one was needed. I also check the names in the phones to make certain there are not many code names allocated to each number. If there are, these names could be names of people she should not be talking to for any number of reasons such as age. I also check her pictures that are on the phone. These can sometimes be indicative of attitude and sexuality as kids will pose as they want others to see them and not necessarily as they really are (go figure). The Controllare uno smartphone a distanza will be helpful in keeping a check over the kid chats and calls. All the information will be available from certain distance spying on them.
I have erased several photos that I felt were showing pouts or her being sensual. Of course you need to know your children well so you can know when the pictures are serious and when they are silly. The differences will be obvious. I also check her BeBo and My Space pages because they all have more than one. One is for showing mom and dad and the other is for their friends. I do also check her friends pages too because I want to know how old they are, and where they are. Once again parents, it is our job and duty to help protect these children that we have bought into the world as we have been here longer and know the potential and possibilities that this world can bring that our kids are still dreaming about. So if you’re not up on these actions just remember the best spy show of the 70’s and “Get Smart” our kids deserve the necessary evil..
